“Death is inevitable,” said Gorka. “However studies show that people spend more time planning a baby shower than making decisions about their death. Talking about dying can be uncomfortable. But, it’s time to end the silence and begin the conversation.”

Medical crisis can happen to any one, at any age, say organizers. Emergencies often leave patients, young or old, unable to speak for themselves. Family and loved ones are unexpectedly asked to make immediate life or death decisions for the individual, while hoping their choices reflect the true wishes of the patient. Families are often burdened with tremendous guilt and uncertainty that they have made the right, or wrong, decisions.

It is during these crises that legal documents called advanced directives are invaluable, say organizers. Healthcare power of attorney and living wills are two forms of advanced directives. In addition, advanced directives laws in Illinois have changed recently, leaving many uncertain about how and what paperwork should be completed.

Beginning the conversation with loved ones is the first, and often most challenging, step, say organizers. Many hospitals offer assistance through this process.

The presentation is free of charge but the parish nurses do ask those interested contact the parish office at (217) 483-3772 to pre-register name, number of people planning to attend and a daytime phone number. Walk-ins will be welcome beginning at 6:30 p.m. with refreshments to be served.