Recently on the radio I heard a commercial advertisement by a travel agency promoting the attractions of having a "destination wedding." One website promoting their staff as "destination wedding experts" tries to entice brides and grooms to say their vows "in a beautiful destination far away" and invites them to imagine "the waves lapping the shore behind you as you stare into the eyes of your beloved. You're surrounded by family and friends who have spent beautiful days together relaxing in paradise." Well, they have probably also spent a lot of money to get there!