Q I am a lifelong Catholic. My wife was raised Lutheran and converted to the Catholic faith after we were married 35 years ago. We raised our four kids in the Catholic Church.

Our daughter, who is 24, joined a Protestant church about a year ago. She met a young man at church, and they recently became engaged. It breaks my heart that she will not be married in the Catholic Church. (I voiced my concerns to her before they became engaged.) My wife is more understanding, since she was raised a Lutheran.